I'm not saying he's pathetic. I'm saying he needs to take a step back and evaluate why his tactics aren't working instead of blaming the game.
The very same thing happened to me when I first got my Python. I got interdicted by two Eagles and an Elite Diamondback Scout with a plasma accelerator, and that Scout burned me down to 65% hull in a turning fight before I was finally able to kill them all. I was incredulous, just as he was. But I took a breath, thought for a second about what I did wrong, researched what I would need to be more agile, and corrected it. I was in a D-rated Python at the time.
Charlie, I'm not saying you're terrible or you suck, I'm just trying to help you realize that this game is a lot easier than you may think in PvE, and you don't need A-rated stuff to do what you want to do. PvP is a different story. Just because you can sit in the cockpit doesn't mean you can effectively fly the ship in combat. Study it a bit and you'll get there. Don't be afraid, they're only NPCs. Like I said, it's better to skimp on the defenses and have good thrusters for the Python in the beginning. You just need to find that balance.